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"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, and tolerant of the weak and the strong. Because someday in life you will have been all of these."
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~ Ubuntu: A very nice story...!

An Anthropologist proposed one game to the kids of African tribal children.

He placed a basket of fruits near a tree.

And made them stand 100 metres away.

And announced that who ever reaches first would get all the fruits in the basket.

When he said ready steady go...

Do you know what these small children did?

They all caught each other's hands and ran towards the tree together, divided the fruits among them and ate the fruits and enjoyed it.

When the Anthropologist asked them why you did so?

They said 'Ubuntu'

Which meant:
'How can one be happy when all the others are sad?'

Ubuntu in their language means:
'I am because, we are!'

Let's all of us always carry this attitude within us and spread happiness, wherever we go...!

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Jujhar Veerjio You always spread happiness wherever you visit the forumSmile
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Thnx alot Rafiq ji for your kind words :)
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बड़े गुस्से से मैं घर से
चला आया ....
इतना गुस्सा था की गलती से पापा के
जूते पहने गए ....
मैं आज बस घर छोड़ दूंगा ....
और तभी लौटूंगा जब
बहुत बड़ा आदमी बन जाऊंगा ...
जब मोटर साइकिल नहीं दिलवा सकते थे ,
तो क्यूँ इंजीनियर बनाने के सपने देखतें है .....
आज मैं पापा का पर्स भी उठा लाया था ....
जिसे किसी को हाथ तक न लगाने देते थे ...
मुझे पता है
जरुर
इस पर्स मैं जरुर पैसो के हिसाब
की डायरी होगी ....
पता तो चले कितना माल छुपाया है .....
माँ से भी ...
इसीलिए हाथ नहीं लगाने देते
किसी को..
जैसे ही मैं कच्चे
रास्ते से सड़क पर आया ...
मुझे लगा जूतों में कुछ चुभ रहा है ....
मैंने जूता निकाल कर देखा .....
मेरी एडी से थोडा सा खून रिस
आया था ...
जूते की कोई कील
निकली हुयी थी दर्द
तो हुआ पर
गुस्सा बहुत था .....
और मुझे जाना ही था ...
घर छोड़कर ...
जैसे ही कुछ दूर चला ....
मुझे पांवो में गिला गिला लगा.....
सड़क पर पानी बिखरा पड़ा था ....
पाँव उठा के देखा तो जूते के तला टुटा था .....
जैसे तेसे
लंगडाकर बस स्टॉप पहुंचा .......
पता चला एक घंटे तक कोई
बस नहीं थी .....
मैंने सोचा ......
क्यों न पर्स
की तलाशी ली जाये ....
मैंने पर्स खोला ....
एक पर्ची दिखाई दी ......
लिखा था
लैपटॉप के लिए 40
हजार उधार लिए
पर लैपटॉप तो घर मैं मेरे पास है ?
दूसरा एक मुड़ा हुआ पन्ना देखा ........उसमे उनके
ऑफिस
की किसी हॉबी डे
का लिखा था उन्होंने
हॉबी लिखी अच्छे जूते
पहनना ......ओह....अच्छे जुते
पहनना ???
पर उनके जुते तो ...........!!!!
माँ पिछले चार
महीने से हर
पहली को कहती है नए जुते ले
लो ...
और वे हर बार कहते .....
अभी तो 6 महीने जूते और
चलेंगे ..
मैं अब समझा कितने चलेंगे
......तीसरी पर्ची ..........
पुराना स्कूटर दीजिये एक्सचेंज में
नयी मोटर
साइकिल
ले
जाइये ...
पढ़ते ही दिमाग घूम
गया.....
पापा का स्कूटर .............
ओह्ह्ह्ह
मैं घर की और
भागा........
अब पांवो मैं वो कील न चुभ
रही थी ....
मैं घर पहुंचा .....
न पापा थे न स्कूटर ..............
ओह्ह्ह नही
मैं समझ गया कहाँ गए ....
मैं दौड़ा .....
और
एजेंसी पर पहुंचा......
# पापा वहीँ थे ...............
मैंने उनको गले से लगा लिया ...
और आंसुओ से
उनका कन्धा भिगो दिया
.....नहीं...पापा नहीं........
मुझे नहीं चाहिए मोटर साइकिल.........
बस आप नए जुते ले
लो और
मुझे अब बड़ा आदमी बनना है
वो भी आपके तरीके से ..
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Don’t Let Past Relationships and old mistakes ruin your future. Don’t let someone or something that didn’t make it in your life continue to hurt you. If you do, you’re still giving a portion of your life to something that no longer exists – it’s like letting your happiness slip into a black hole. Learn the lesson, release the pain, and move on. Scars remind us of where we have been, not where we are headed.

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Very interesting story that analyzes how we tend to make decisions:

Our well thought and so called ethical decisions may not always be the right ones!

Consider:
A group of children were playing near two railway tracks, one still in use while the other disused.

Only one child played on the disused track, the rest on the operational track.

The train is coming, and you are just beside the track interchange. You can make the train change its course to the disused track and save most of the kids.

However, that would also mean the lone child playing by the disused track would be sacrificed.

Or would you rather let the train go its way?

Let's take a pause to think what kind of decision we could make................

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Most people might choose to divert the course of the train, and sacrifice only one child.

You might think the same way, I guess. Exactly, I thought the same way initially because to save most of the children at the expense of only one child was rational decision most people would make, morally and emotionally.

But, have you ever thought that the child choosing to play on the disused track had in fact made the right decision to play at a safe place?

Nevertheless, he had to be sacrificed because of his ignorant friends who chose to play where the danger was.

This kind of dilemma happens around us everyday. In the office, community, in politics and especially in a democratic society, the RIGHT is often sacrificed for the interest of the majority, no matter how foolish or ignorant the majority are, and how far-sighted and knowledgeable the wise are.

The child who chose not to play with the rest on the operational track was sidelined. And in the case he was sacrificed, no one would shed a tear for him.

The great critic Leo Velski Julian who told the story said he would not try to change the course of the train because he believed that the kids playing on the operational track should have known very well that track was still in use, and that they should have run away if they heard the train's sirens. If the train was diverted, that lone child would definitely die because he never thought the train could come over to that track! Moreover, that track was not in use probably because it was not safe. If the train was diverted to the track, we could put the lives of all passengers on board at stake! And in your attempt to save a few kids by sacrificing one child, you might end up sacrificing hundreds of people to save these few kids.

While we are all aware that life is full of tough decisions that need to be made, we may not realize that hasty decision may not always be the right one.

Remember that:

"What's Right isn't alway popular..

and what's popular isn't always Right."

Everybody makes mistakes; that's why they put erasers on pencils.
It's not winning that matters, it's winning without compromise that matters...!

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There were three ships which were nearby when the Titanic sunk.
One of them was known as the Sampson. It was 7 miles away from the Titanic and they saw the white flares signaling danger, but because the crew had been hunting seals illegally and didn’t want to be caught, they turned and went the opposite direction away from the Titanic. This ship represents us and people like us if we are so busy looking inward at our own sin and lives that we can’t recognize when someone else... is in need.
The next ship was the Californian. This ship was only 14 miles away from the Titanic, but they were surrounded by ice fields and the captain looked out and saw the white flares, but because the conditions weren’t favorable and it was dark, he decided to go back to bed and wait until morning. The crew tried to convince themselves that nothing was happening. This ship represents those of us who say I can’t do anything now. The conditions aren’t right for it and so we wait until conditions are perfect before going out.
The last ship was the Carpathia. This ship was actually headed in a southern direction 58 miles away from the Titanic when they heard the distress cries over the radio. The captain of this ship knelt down, prayed to God for direction and then turned the ship around and went full steam ahead through the ice fields. This was the ship that saved the 705 survivors of the Titanic.
When the captain looked back at the ice fields they had come through, he said Someone else hands must have been at the helm of this ship! This ship represents those who would pray to God for direction and then go without hesitation.
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Life whispers in your soul and speaks to your heart. We need to take time to listen and to these whispers and take heed.
I have seen the helpful hands of strangers nd unhelpful hand of known people..life teaches us so many things..
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Great sharing thnx
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