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    Posted: 27 January 2004 at 12:26am

dear friends here comes the ever burning topic. Please share with me

2-3-4 mundey jamaey

Mai dekhey(seen) bahotey ghaar(many homes) hai

Jithey jammey mundey(boy born) 2-3-4 hai

Bhari jawani vich tna ker chhati chodhi(seena taan k)

Gumda(roaming around) ghar da sardar hai

Pehlaan tna bahot padhaey(educate) mundey

Doctor, Engineer, koi vateel bannae mundey

Ohnaa ne mundeyaan nu dukaanaa(shops) khol dittiyaan

Jihnaa ne nahin padhaey mundey

Makaan v leh dittey sab nu alag-alag

Badhey shonk naal veyaaey(wedded) mundey

Hunn budhey(old) ho gaye maa-pyo

Laut k buddu gar ko aaey buddey(now they understand)

Mai kehnaa j eh sab he karna c

Tna ki kudhian maadhian c

Ohna nu v tna veyaah k torna(send) c

Ohna da v ghar banna k torna c

Kai ghar mai vekhe jihna mundey 2-3-4 jamaey

Padhaey-likhaey, noohaan(bahu) veyah k ghar lyaey

Hunn jad thaan(space) ho gai thodhi

Mundeyaan, budheyaan dey manjhe baahar ‘cha daaye

Nauker paa k aandha roti bachi-khuchi

Kapdhey leeraan-leeraan paaye

Aandhi jaandhi noo, sas-sorre nu taane maar k jaey

Kehndhi kam kaaj dey hai nahin, 9 mann annaj khaey

Bicharey hunn ki kerdey ronn dey sivaaye(except)

Baaba kehanda, jehdhi dhee mai tere didh vich c maari(aborted)

A os kukaram(bad deed) dey nateejey(results) mere saahmnne aaye

Kudhi nu jamman tno pehlaan he maar denna paap hai

Osnu jammdeyaan he maar denna maha-paap hai

Osdhe jammann te ronna paap hai

Osnu na padhaonna(education) paap hai

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Jamm pai kudhi

Jamm pya munda, vadhaiyaan aaiyaan

Chache aaye, mame aaye, mamiyaan aiyaan, masiyaan aiyaan

Daadhey, naaney, diwaney yaar mastaney aaye

Behnna aiyaan, kapdhey naal mathyaaiyaan lyaaiyaan

Hassdey paye sab, gaandey paye sab

Khushian khoob manandey paye sab

Nachdey paye sab, tappdey paye sab, taashey dhol vajaandey paye sab

Jamm payi kudhi, maatam chhaaye

Na koi vadhai, na koi mathaai

Na chachi, mami, masi, na behann-bhraa, bharjai aai

Rondey paye sab, kurlaandey paye sab

Kismat da ronna c gaandey paye sab

Pammi kehnda, sohri dyao, kyon rondey kurlaandey paye o

Kismat da ronna kyon gaandey paye o

Eh kudhi kisey dee behann banni ye

Noo, bivi, bhabhi, firr maa bannegi

Oye ik maa da karza tusi laa nahin sakkdey

Kyon rondey o, na rovvo

J khushian tusi manna nahin sakkdey

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 pammi vji thanx for raising such a critical issue...

i feel very strongly against the treatment meted out to women in INDIA

i just want to ask one question to those men who throw out/kill/burn/harass their wives on account of their 'failure' to produce a boy:

HOW WOULD THEY HAVE COME INTO THIS WORLD HAD THEIR MOTHER BEEN KILLED IN THE SAME MANNER AS THEY WANT TO KILL THEIR DAUGHTERS???

AS for those Mothers in law who want a son, i can't comprehend their philosophy....how CAN THEY JUST EVEN THINK OF MURDERING A FELLOW GIRL??

SCIENTIFICALLY SPEAKING, the chromosomes responsible for producing a boy are in the FATHER AND NOT MOTHER...SO IT'S NOT THE MOTHER'S 'FAULT' IN ANY CASE...

I think the biggest problem is of those parents who 'allow' their daughters to take birth and tHen offer them, throughout their lives, A LIVING HELL-INFERIOR EDUCATION, INFERIOR FOOD, INFERIOR CLOTHES, TOYS AND WHAT NOT...

OUR EDUCATION SYSYEM HAS MISERABLY FAILED AT GENDER SENSITIZATION. THE SITUATION IS AS BAD IN URBAN AREAS AS IN VILLAGES...

I REALLY DON'T KNOW WHERE THE SOLN LIES... HOW MANY MORE GIRLS WE HAVE TO SACRIFICE BEFORE WE CAN WAKE PEOPLE UP???

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Dear Jazz thanks a lot for joining the v important topic & giving ur value able views, which will definitely help many of us & at the same time this will also promote the healthy discussion.

You, v rightly said that especially in India the women are being suppressed so much that most of the women are not being allowed to move freely or expressed their views independently. They are not allowed to go out alone. Not allowed to speak to the strangers. In the walled cities many Muslim women are still covered under the Burka. As all of us know that the route cause of poverty here is due to illiteracy. In this advanced, globalize world of computers, no ittilerate person can live with respect & dignity. Moreover no illiterate person, man or a woman, will be able to earn his or her livelihood in this advance world of technology & competition. Most of us don’t allow our daughters or sisters for higher education. Moreover we marry them at early age or stage with strangers about whom even we don’t know anything, which leads to quarrels and ultimately our girls are being suppressed for the whole life.

We should not marry our daughters with the persons who demand dowry. As all of us know that the biggest dowry is the education & sanskar, which should be given to our daughters in abundance. Only an educated woman can teach her children & show them the path to success, peace & prosperity.

Here comes the definition of maa.

maa

maa dil hundhi hai, jiger hai maa, maa hundhi hai jnaa(jaan)

pyo hundha hai chashma paanni mithhey dha(nirmal sweet water)

thhandi chhaan hundhi hai maa(cool shadow)

jad hundha hai bachcha kukh vich(mother’s womb)

lahoo pila k banaaundhi hai maa(feeds blood)

seeney naal laga, dudh pilaaundhi hai(feeds breast milk)

peyt katt k khilaaundhi hai maa(feeds her own share of food)

thhithhurdhi hovvey thhand vich beshak(while shivering in cold)

garmin-looh baarish, herr balaa tno bachaundhi hai maa(protects from bad seasons)

jithey v behendhi hai maa, pavitter ho jaaundhi hai o thaan( wherever she sits, that place becomes pure)

Rabh nu tna kissey takkeya nahin, per herr velle naal rehendi hai maa(no one has ever seen God, but maa is always visibly present)

ik kudhee dhey roop vich janam lehendhi hai

saaree umer apney aap nu zamaaney tno bachaundhi rehendhi hai(protects herself from the cruel world)

lokee kehendhey kismat kharaab c, jehdhi ki kudhi jamm pai

vaise kismat kharaab hundhi hai unhaan dhee( unlucky r those)

jihna dey ghar, ik maa da roop kudhee janam nahin lehendhi, tna( where girl is not born)

ohna bholeyaan nu puchho, je kudhi nahin jammegi(ask those mislead, if, a girl is not there)

tna tuhaadey ghar nooh kithon aavegi(from where u will get wife 4 ur son)

feyr ik munda vee tna ohee jammegi( then she has to give birth to a son)

je noo hee nahin aavegi tna munda kithon jammega

bholeyo ik maa hee jan-ni hundhi hai(a mother is the only creator)

jehdi k ik kudi dey roop vich janam laindhi hai(takes birth in the form of a girl)

bacheyaan nu seeney naal lagaaundhi hai maa(escorts kids)

saveyr dey suraj dee laali hundhi hai(like morning cool sun)

thhandhak chann-taareyaan vaali hundhi hai maa(coolness of stars & moon)

jivveyn jeysthh-haadh dhey mahiney dee garmi looh seh k dharti(hot winds of may-june)

saavan nu niyotdi hai, thhand paandhi hai( invites spring rain)

ovveyn he naun mahine gall-ball k(alike, suffers for 9 months)

ik navin rachna rachaundhi hai maa(creates a new life)

kudrat dee bannaai neymtaan da(God’s creations)

jeeundha-jaagda saboot hai( live proof)

permaatam savroop hai maa( God’s own-self)

sohne rab da he roop hai maa ( God her-self)

With Due Regards

Pammi

 

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I Agree with both of u jass ji and Pammi ji....

But i would like to draw attention of all women's out there who are themselves responsible for the miserable condition of women...coz its only a female i.e. Mother-in-law which asks for a baby boy in most of the cases... " Je aurat nu aurat na mare, taan aurat di miserable condition nu sudhareya ja sakda hai ji"...

Get up ladies before its too late...don't blame anybody else but be brave to fight injustice...Mai Bhago bano, Mata Gujri bano, Rani Lakshmi bai bano...te es dharti ton insaniyat nu bacha lavo...

Only a lady can make a house a HOME....my words might be harsh but that the Truth...

Lets be aware of our rights....is dharti ton daaj pratha nu hata do plzzzzzzzzzzzzz for god sake kujh karo....

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Dear friends here is a true story of a maa-beta

Eh oh hee maa hai

Eh oh hee maa hai, jehdhi aapon reh bhukhi

Tainu khavaandhi c

Aapon beh k dhuppey

Tainu chhaan te bhaandhi c

Aapon paa k leeraan

Tainu sajhaundhi c

Aapon kha k sukki

Tainu padhaundhi c

Aapon thhithhurdi c thhand vich

Tainu pavaundhi c

Aapon pairi nangi, godhi chukk k tainu

Meelaan takk jaundhi c

Khairaati haspataalaan diyaan linaa vich lagh k

Tera ilaaj karaundhi c

Ki tnu ohi bachcha hayn?

Jehda maa dhee chhaati naal judheya rehnda c

Jehda har velle maa naal chimdheya rehnda c

Jehda maa naal judh k saundha c

Jehda peyo dhee maar tno derdha

Maa dhey aanchal vich lukk jaandha c

Jehda bhukhi maa dhey seene naal lagg k

Dhudh peendha sno jaandha c

Jehda har velle mammi-mammi kerda nai thakda c

Ki hunn tnu bahot vadda ho geya hayn?

Ki hunn tnu bahot samajhdaar ho geya hayn?

Ki hunn tnu bahot ameer ho geya hayn?

Ki pehle tnu ayyaana c?

Te hunn tnu sayaana ho geya hayn?

Ya pehle teree maa changee c

Te hunn mandhi ho gaee hai?

Ya pehle tainu teree maa dhee lodh c

Te hunn nai hai?

Ya pehle tnu maa da ditta khaandha c

Te hunn tnu kamaau ho geya hayn?

Beshaq maa koi ehsaan nai kerdhi

Per tainu usda ehsaan man-na payega

Beshaq maa koi kerza nai chadhaandhi

Per terey te bahot vadda kerz hai osda

Beshaq maa chup rehndi hai, kuj nai kehndi hai

Per oh mehsoos kerdi hai

Beshaq maa buddi ho gai hai

Per oh sab jaanndhi hai

Beshaq maa khaann nu nahin mangdi

Per osda v dil kerda hai

Beshaq maa paann nu nai mangdi

Per osda v dil kerda hai

Hunn maa diyaan haddiyaan vich ghat zor hai

Tna hee te osnu hunn teree lodd hai

Hunn maa dhee nazar kamzor hai

Tna he te osnu hunn teree lodd hai

Hunn maa turr nai sakkdi

Tna he te osnu hunn tere sahaare dhee lodd hai

Hunn maa sunn nai sakkdi

Tna he te osnu hunn tere ishaare dhee lodh hai

Hunn maa bimaar hai

Osnu ilaaj dee lodd hai

Hunn maa kamzor hai

Osnu teri taaqat dee lodd hai

Bholeya eh teri maa hai

Na ki koi hor hai

Tnu tna tak he ameer hayn

jad tak eh tere naal hai

Tnu tna takk he ameer heyn

Jad tak tnu isdhe naal hayn

Saari duniya diyaan khushian ik paasey

Maa dey haasse ik paase

Saare duniyaa dey dukh ik paasey

Maa dee haaye ik paasey

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Very well quoted Pammi ji...ik vaari veer ne ik seminar te ik quote diti si i would like to share with all of u...

God could not be everywhere; so he created My MOM...

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Maa, no less than permat maa

maa

maa dil hundhi hai, jiger hai maa, maa hundhi hai jnaa(jaan)

pyo hundha hai chashma paanni mithhey da(nirmal sweet water)

thhandi chhaan hundhi hai maa(cool shadow)

jad hunda hai bachcha kukh vich(mother’s womb)

lahoo pila k bannadhi hai maa(feeds blood)

seeney naal laga, dhudh pilaandhi hai(feeds breast milk)

peyt katt k khilaandhi hai maa(feeds her own share of food)

thhithhurdhi hovve thhand vich beshak(while shivering in cold)

garmin looh baarish, her balaa tno bachandhi hai maa(protects from bad seasons)

jithey v behandhi hai maa, pavitter ho jaandhi hai o thaan( whereever she sits, that place becomes pure)

rab nu tna kisey takkya nahin, per her veley naal rehandhi hai maa(no one has seen god, but maa is always visibly present)

ik kudhee dey roop vich janam lehendhi hai

saari umer apney aap nu zamaaney tno bachaandhi rehandhi hai(protects herself from the cruel world)

lokee kehandey kismat kharaab c, jehdee ki kudhi jamm pai

vaise kismat kharaab hundhi hai uhnaa dee( unlucky r those)

jihna dey ghar, ik maa da roop kudhi janam nahin lehendhi, tna( where girl is not born)

ohna bholeyaan nu puchho, je kudhi nahin jammegi(ask those mis-lead, if, a girl is not there)

tna tuhaadey ghar noo kithon aavegi(from where u will get wife 4 ur son)

feyr ik munda vee tna ohee jammegi( then she has to give birth to a son)

j noo hee nai aavegee tna munda kithon jammega

bholeyo ik maa he jan-nee hundhi hai(a mother is the only creater)

jehdi k ik kudhi dey roop vich janam laindhi hai(takes birth in the form of a girl)

bacheyaan nu seeney naal lagaandhi hai maa(escorts kids)

saveyr dey suraj de laali hundhi hai(like morning cool sun)

thhandhak chann-taareyaan vaali hundhi hai maa(coolness of stars & moon)

jivveyn jeysthh-haadh dhey mahiney dee garmi looh seh k dharti(heat & hot winds of may-june)

saavan nu niyotdi hai, thhand paandhi hai( invites spring rain)

ovveyn he naun mahiney gall-ball k(alike, suffers for 9 months)

ik navin rachna rachandi hai maa(creates a new life)

kudrat dee banaaee neymtaan da(God’s creations)

jeeundha-jaagda saboot hai( live proof)

permaatam savroop hai maa( God’s own-self)

sohney rab da he roop hai maa ( God him-self)

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Gr8 Poem Pammi ji...

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dear friends here are different versions of maa. Please share with me.

Maa in different versions

Dharti maa

Mai maa ganga-jamuna-saraswati

Kadey chandhi durga devi hna

Mai hna dharti sab dhi maa

Sabh nu chukkdi, nahin mai thhakdi

Mai nahin rukkdi, ghummdi rehandhi hna

Sabh nu sabh kujh khaan lai dendhi

Paann lai dendhi, saddak makaan banaaun lai dendhi

Paudey peydh lagaan lai dendhi thhaan

Sabh da koodha gandh, poora gandh, hna mai kha jaaundhi

Mudd khaad bannaaundhi hna

Baad maran dey chir key sina mai daffnaaundhi

Yaa fer chhaati baal mai aapnni sanskaar karaaundhi

Swargaan takk pahuchaaundhi hna, mai hna dharti…

 

Saadi maa jan-ni

Jadh kadey koi dhee ya putt jammann lagdi hai maa

Jo derd sehndhi hai tna, nahin ho sakkda byaan

No mahiney rakhdi kukh vich hai

Kai varrey naal sanvaaldi hai maa

Fadh k ungli likhnna-padhnaa sikhaundhi hai

Hath fadh, chalna-firrna sikhaundhi hai maa

Aapoon rehndi hovve chhopdey tuttey vich beshaq

Bacheyaan lai fullaan di seyj sajaaundhi hai maa

Bin maa adhoori aatma, adhoora dhermaatma

Te nahin je hundha poora permaatma bin maa

Vaisey Rab v sab dey jammdi hai maa

Beshaq Rabu aap sohney hathhaan naal bannaai hai maa

Kisey dhi sass, nooh, dhi, bivi, bhaabi, changi hovey ya na

Per changi hundi hai saareyaan dhi maa

Changey honn ghar vich sabh, bahut changi gal hai

Per saareyaan tno changi hundi hai maa

Uthhdi saareyaan tno pehlaan

Savaal key saareyaan nu sondhi hai maa

Khaandhi saareyan tno chhekadh

Khavaal k saareyaan nu khaandhi hai maa

 

 

Hind mere di maa

Aj chhavinjha varrhe ho gaye, desh mere nu aazaad hoye

Aj vi saddkaan te bhukhi-nangi bhaundhi hai

Hind mere dhi maa

Laahnat desh mere dey netaavaan te tna

Koodey dey deyr chon kaagaz-kabaadh, bataundhi hai

Maanjh k bhaandey jhoothhey, lokaan dey gharaan chon

Jhoothh ghar chukk liyaaundhi hai

Laahnat desh merey dey netaavaan te, tna

Maanjh ke bhaandey joothhey, lokaan dey gharaan chon

Jhoothh ghar chukk liaundhi hai

Khaandha vekh bachcheyaan bhukheyaan nu

Khush tna bahut hundhi hai

Per horey ki soch, mathhey hath dhar

Lahoo dey hanjhu, rondhi hai hind mere dhi maa

Laahnat desh merey dey netaavaan te tna, laahnat tna

Aj chhavinja varrhe ho gaye, desh merey nu aazaad hoye

Aj vi sadhkaan te bhukhi nangi bhaundhi hai, hind merey dhi maa

Laahnat desh merey dey netaavaan te tna, laahnat tna

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juzhar u r every where gr88 yaar keep it up i think u r very technoloving
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Ty veer...No doubt i m technoloving but before that i love all of u...
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Can we, through this forum open a counselling arena for the women who seek help and guidance???. I think we all should promote this forum to all the needy people who just b'coz of lack of knowledge about their fundamental rights, suffer whole of their lives......I would like all the readers to invite ur family members, ur friends and any one whether he/she is a Doctor/Lawyer/Enviornmentalist or any other professional who can give us proper suggestions for people who seek help...I wana request u all who know anyone in need to just register himself here and discuss his problem openly and we all will try to get a solution out of it...PLz this is a humble request from the bottom of my heart that whosoever reads this plz just think about it...coz je asi es marag te aake vi apne vaaste hi jee rahe haan te whats the use???JUST ASK URSELF???

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dear Jujhar ur really techno-lovino-humano-kindo-logist.
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Ty Pammi ji..
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dear Jujhar Pammi wishes u all the best in life. In this world there are v rare people like u. Be always in chadhdi kala. Veer himmat na haarna te saanu v chadhdi kala val dhakeylna g.

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veer I think its everyone personal responsibility to promote GURMAT/HUMANITY so that we can bring wonders in the world by helping those in need can stand for them in their hard times. 
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Originally posted by jujhar jujhar wrote:

Can we, through this forum open a counselling arena for the women who seek help and guidance???. I think we all should promote this forum to all the needy people who just b'coz of lack of knowledge about their fundamental rights, suffer whole of their lives......I would like all the readers to invite ur family members, ur friends and any one whether he/she is a Doctor/Lawyer/Enviornmentalist or any other professional who can give us proper suggestions for people who seek help...I wana request u all who know anyone in need to just register himself here and discuss his problem openly and we all will try to get a solution out of it...PLz this is a humble request from the bottom of my heart that whosoever reads this plz just think about it...coz je asi es marag te aake vi apne vaaste hi jee rahe haan te whats the use???JUST ASK URSELF???

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Its sad to see that no one has shared any personal experience or problem of any friend or relative of urs... Plz let this topic be a source to help women out there who are in need...plz contribute to this section...

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dear le me share one story of one lady there was one lady in my relation they had a love marriage so calllovemarriage i will say and before marriage both of them have seen the best side of the coin

  and soon after marriage the boy statr drinking immensely like anything and their life started ruining then with the hope when they will have the child everything will be okay it get worsended up he started beeting her up also and due to children sake she is not in a condition to leave her and sir now today where there are navratara in a year his husband donot drink and she says navratras are good at like his husband doesnot drink for those particular days

so in such situations what one should do try to give practical solutions that everything go smoothly

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Thats a very sad situation...coz in young age when we fall in love or i should say get infatuated to anyone, our mind stops working and we see only positive aspects in other person ignoring the negativities due to which this girl is suffering...Dear sugad ji can u tell us why she can't leave that man???Is she uneducated or her parents do not wana accept her??? Let us know the picture clearly so that we all can try and give a solution....pls give the details....

I wish LT should have so much funds that it could support such ladies, orphans, old people and all the needy people and give them a true way of living and a source to earn their bread & butter...but lack of funds and manpower is the main hindrance which we are facing today...but one fine day we will succeed with the help of U ALL...

Coz we cann't spell "S_CCESS" without "U"

 

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